Tbh, I was triggered to write this piece of ‘Crabbing Silly Stuff by N’ (wah, macam title buku dah pulok, hahahha); when I had this conversation with a guy recently. Upon the verbal comm we had, we’d stumbled across this topic of, what is the different between crush, like, falls and such.
Well, being me the typical N who like to define things as per my opinion, I’d told him there’s huge differences between those fine lines of emotions. But u gotta keep this in mind, that this is from my POV, and it is subjective accordingly to every individuals.
So, let us browse through:
CRUSH: this is a law attraction between two different sexes. When someone literally told a person, the he or she have a crush on them its genuinely doesn’t involved any ‘deep emotion’ YET. You know when you saw some cute girl or guy sitting at this random place (eg: fastfood restaurant); and u kinda have this tinglish feeling saying ‘gee…he’s/she’s kinda cute.. Can I know more about him/her?’. And this is the point when u approach someone to know how far this ‘crush’ thingy would go.
LIKE: upon hangouts, dates, meetings, etcetera (read: just called it whatever you wanna called it, duhh) with someone who u felt attracted to; it put things in order whether ur crush is just a slit of attraction and it doesn’t lead to anything; OR it might actually develop this feeling called ‘LIKEABLE’ or ‘NONLIKEABLE’ sparks between these two humans. I mean common, don’t jump into conclusion just yet without seeing things in a different perspective n such. So enjoy this stage of knowing a person, and let the time decide. Geddit?!
FALLS: when we had went through the first two stages as mentioned above… this ‘fall in love’ scene come into action, or it might not even in the ideas AT ALL. Okay let say that we did LOVE them, being puzzled and messed up and we wonder what shits had we gotten into (read: for real??). Fret not since this is when we know, that we are able to accept any kind of conditions of what our partner offered. It might be his or her utmost best, or worst. Yet, we got stuck to him/her deeply in emotion and the pros n cons from both parties just complement each other as a couple. And so, we let us ‘fall’ deeply into this weird-love-hates relationship and just couldn’t stop cursing each other saying how we hate them for making us fall in love with them (read: EVIL GRINN!)
Okay. End of merepek. Faham dak apa yang aku cuba sampaikan gais??? Gee.. I should start up a blog on this CRABBING hobby of mine. Hahaha... But still, opinions is subjective, and so does EMOTION(S).
Dear Oppa Jung Suk, I LOVE YOU from urs truly.
Anne Hisham
